You are of value

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We are obsessed with proving our worth, and it is slowing down us from achieving our true purpose

 

What is our obsession with being admired?

“Well, she might have left school early and had a baby as a teenager, but let me tell you she keeps her house spotless”… This was a statement said in front me about another young women. This was a statement from a father about his daughter.
This was a statement from someone trying to say that another human being had value.
This was a statement that has haunted me for years.

What is our obsession with being admired?
What is our obsession with PROVING our worth?
What is wrong with being JUST A MUM.
And what the fuck is JUST A MUM?

This mothers day I am contemplating worth and what it means.
I am not of value because I am a mum. I am not even sure I am a good one, but I am one, and I am enough.
I am not of value because I am successful business woman. I am not even sure I am a good one, but I am one, and I am enough.
I am not of value because I am a housewife. I am certainly not a good one (I am far too disobedient), but I am one, and I am enough.
I am not of value because I am a wife. I am not even sure I am a good one, but I am one, and I am enough.
I am not of value because I sparkle. I am not even sure that I do, and I still, I am ENOUGH.

I do not have value because of what I provide, love, care, magic, a clean house, inspiration, meals, sex, business growth, connection…
I am of value because I have reincarnated on this earth.
We all have purpose, and we all have worth.
That worth is not dependant on what you give, how your preform or how fucking clean your house is!

You are of worth, because you are a human being.
And I celebrate your worth.
And I… invite you to join me in celebrating your worth today…

HOW?
Simple, what is that YOU desire right now?
What is THIS moment for, right now?
What would make you feel COMPLETE right now?
Do THAT, do the thing that you FEEL right now,
Honour you. Because… I honour you.

Two days ago my husband said to me “how long has it been said I said how proud of you I am?”.
He said it because he felt it.
He said it because he meant it.
And he said it because I used to need it.

But I no longer need it.
I replied “I don’t know, giggle, ages? But it doesn’t matter, because I AM PROUD OF ME” followed by more giggles from both of us.

I do not need approval to love myself.
I do not need to be a treasured mum to love myself.
I do not need to be successful in business to love myself.
I love myself because I value myself.

We spend so much time seeking approval,
So much time living up to expectations,
So much time ‘trying’ to succeed,
That we forget that we are already ENOUGH.

YOU ARE ENOUGH.
AND I CELEBRATE YOU.

Time To Take Action

 

👉 Write down all the things you really WANT to do

👉 Make space in your calendar for the things you REALLY WANT

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